This summer I’m joining up with some fellow ministers to present a Summer Blog Tour. Each week we will post two blogs on “The Power of a _____________ Story” in the hopes that you will be encouraged by the power of what God does in our lives every day. I’ll be posting these blogs on Sundays and Wednesdays for the next 10 weeks. Enjoy!
The Power of a Disappointing Story
Disappointment is an experience that every one faces…and often in many varieties and shades. Sometimes disappointment comes at the hands of others, and sometimes we create it all on our own.
You know, that weight you were going to lose by now. The degree you were going to earn has somehow eluded you. The order you were hoping to establish in your daily routine escapes in the trap of too many late nights and way too early mornings. The books you wanted to write that once started remain unfinished. The commitment to write for someone else that has found you looking at an empty document, fingers stalled on the keyboard. The preacher who thought he would have been able to lead his church to greater heights.
Oh, excuse me…didn’t mean to spill MY disappointments in myself all over the place. But I bet I’m in good company.
Life is a long preparation for something that never happens. ~W.B. Yeats
Age has a way of sneaking up on us. Health issues slow us down when we thought before that we could be active any time we wanted to. Like the addict who swears he has no problems, we blind ourselves to reality until one day when the stark reality of who we are doesn’t leave us any way out. We realize that all the things we thought we might be, well, they aren’t likely to happen.
After the crucifixion of Jesus some disciples grappled with their own disappointment. As they tried to sift through the information…he died…the women said they saw an angel who said he was alive…but we haven’t seen him…he must be dead.
But we had hoped that he was the one to redeem Israel. ~ Cleopas and another Discouraged Disciple on the road to Emmaus Luke 24:21
How can there be any power in a disappointing story? You get to the end of the book only to find out the main character has died. Powerful? Not really. You watch all the episodes of a show that has you hooked, but in the end they just ruined the whole thing. Disappointment. Well, we may not be able to rescue fictional works that turn sour in the end, but your life is different. It’s nonfiction, no matter how crazy the details.
Disappointments – great or small – can actually turn out to be a pretty powerful experience. Sometimes out of the rubble of disappointment is a new reality you couldn’t have designed or pictured if you tried.
Thankfully, our disappointments matter to God, and He has a way of taking even some of the bitterest moments we go through and making them into something of great significance in our life. It’s hard to understand it at the time. Not one of us wants that thread when it is being woven in. Not one of us says, ‘I can hardly wait to see where this is going to fit.’ We all say at that moment, ‘This is not the pattern I want.’ ~Ravi Zacharias, The Grand Weaver
When Jesus revealed himself to the disappointed disciples on the road to Emmaus, new light was given to their faith. They said to each other,
Were not our hearts burning within us while he was talking to us on the road, while he was opening the scriptures to us? Luke 24:32-33
Instead of continuing toward Emmaus they went to Jerusalem to join the other formerly disappointed but now ecstatic disciples.
Maybe your disappointments seem irreversible. Divorce. Financial ruin. Accused. Arrested. Abandoned. Abused. Mourning the loss of a person or even a pet…disappointment is one gut-punch we don’t just walk away from.
The one thing that never disappoints us is hope. Hope that is certain of what lies ahead. While our knowledge of God’s promises is secure, the road that we travel between here and there can be rugged. The reason hope never disappoints us is that we carry it with us through the dark streets of shame and uncertainty.
When God saved you He poured hope into your heart. Not just a little, but filled your heart up because He knew that there were going to be some real struggles along the way. If you’re disappointed, just clear out all the troubling thoughts and focus intently here:
Therefore, since we are justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have obtained access to this grace in which we stand; and we boast in our hope of sharing the glory of God. And not only that, but we also boast in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us. Romans 5:1-5
If you didn’t feel some disappointment lift, read it again. See the friendship with God expressed there? The assurances just pour out of this passage.
We are justified by faith.
We have peace with God through Jesus.
We have access to grace in which we stand.
We boast in our hope of sharing the glory of God.
We…boast…in…our…sufferings (disappointing, isn’t it, that sufferings have to enter into this passage).
People who suffer endure. Character is produced. Hope, the kind that can never disappoint us, has been given to us. Because God loves us. All in the face of suffering.
So, dear friend, when you’ve felt the pangs of disappointment, remember that your story isn’t finished yet. The hopes you had might be eclipsed by a more glorious plan that God has for you – even when it’s hard to understand.
Here’s a Prayer for the Disappointed
God so often my eyes are clouded and I can’t see the Powerful Risen Savior because the “facts” of the day are staring me in my face. I am disappointed because I thought maybe You would provide for me in a different way. But in faith I affirm that You know much more about my tomorrows than I do. I know you’ll walk with me through days of glory and days of gloom. Would you bring healing and serenity to my hurting heart today? I don’t have to know all the answers. I just want to know You more. Father please remind me of the power of a disappointing story and how Your hope never disappoints. This hope, found only in your son Jesus, my Brother. Amen.
John Dobbs is the minister for the Forsythe Church of Christ in Monroe, Louisiana. He is married to the former Margaret Willingham. He has two children, Nicole, who has provided two beautiful grandchildren, and John Robert, who is deceased. Connect with John on his blog, at Forsythe Church of Christ, on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.
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